I just did upgrade from v9.9 to v9.10 on a RPi 4B (8GB) and successfully switched to the new kernel. I had to manually downgrade libsdl2-dev and libsdl2-2.0-0 during the process when the script halted, due to a dependency issue with the installed version of the latter.
I have dual 4K displays attached, which did output 4K (30p if I recall correctly) before but after the upgrade to version 9.10 with its new kernel, the only option I get is 1920 x 1080. Furthermore, dietpi-display does not work due to “No DRM device has been found” message on the vc4-kms-v3d-pi4 module.
So I guess you set the resoultion manually. Dietpi would set it in /coot/config.txt so we do the same here:
You need to set hdmi_enable_4kp60=1 in your /boot/config.txt (which you probably already did in the past. If not, do it and reboot) and also add hdmi_mode and hdmi_group to set the resolution.
Reading the forum I added video=1920x1080@60e onto consoleargs in boot/dietpiEnv.txt and it boots up in 1080 and I can now select it from the desktop. So maybe if you do the same you will have the same result.
Before, xrandr did not show 1080 but after the parm was added it does.