thank you Joulinar and trendy, I really appreciate the help
192.168.1.1 is my router, 192.168.13.1 is the gateway of the WISP I connect to, and I assume 192.168.14.1 is something else in the WISP system. they have been down a couple times for maintenance/repairs recently, perhaps they changed something that’s affecting me. Unfortunately they are not very helpful with customer service.
Joulinar when I run a traceroute on my macbook it looks like the DietPi traceroute with just …1.1, …13.1 and …14.1. No VPNs active. But the Macbook has no problem opening those sites and downloading files. They are on the same simple network, only difference is DietPi is wired and Macbook is on wifi.