A lot has happened since I posted.
I downloaded a fresh copy V140 for NanoPi NEO and put it on the SD card.
Attached ethernet cable and usb power. Wifi dongle plugged in.
Booted and it went through the update and reboot.
Went through startup screens and selected dieti-config from menu.
In Network Options Adapters
Ethernet was available/Enabled and Connected
Wifi was available/ disabled and Disconnected
Clicked on Wifi and it said that it had to enable.
Automatic download of iproute and netplug **** IF you don’t have an internet connection how would you get these?? ****
[Info] Please wait, enabling WiFi Modules…
[Ok] wifi enable | Completed
\
- Restarting networking services…
ifup: interface eth0 already configured
Internet Systems Consortium DHCP Client 4.3.1
Copyright 2004-2014 Internet Systems Consortium.
All rights reserved.
For info, please visit https://www.isc.org/software/dhcp/
Listening on LPF/wlan0/40:a5:ef:d2:ee:52
Sending on LPF/wlan0/40:a5:ef:d2:ee:52
Sending on Socket/fallback
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 4
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 9
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 8
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 15
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 19
**** NO ssid or pw has been set at this point so it fails after a wait ************
Goes back to Network Options
Click on Wifi to set up static wifi
Manual - enter SSID and PW
Say OK to connect now ***** This was a mistake as I haven’t set the static info yet ****************
Goes through wifi enable again **** wifi was already enabled earlier, but OK ******
says it is connected
Connecting to Williams , please wait
DietPi-Services
─────────────────────────────────────────────────────
Mode: stop
Please wait…
[Ok] cron
[Info] Dropping connections, please wait…
DietPi-Set_Hardware
─────────────────────────────────────────────────────
Mode: wifi (enable)
Please wait…
[Info] Please wait, enabling WiFi Modules…
[Ok] wifi enable | Completed
\
- Restarting networking services…
ifup: interface eth0 already configured
Internet Systems Consortium DHCP Client 4.3.1
Copyright 2004-2014 Internet Systems Consortium.
All rights reserved.
For info, please visit https://www.isc.org/software/dhcp/
Listening on LPF/wlan0/40:a5:ef:d2:ee:52
Sending on LPF/wlan0/40:a5:ef:d2:ee:52
Sending on Socket/fallback
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 4
DHCPDISCOVER on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67 interval 6
DHCPREQUEST on wlan0 to 255.255.255.255 port 67
DHCPOFFER from 192.168.1.1
DHCPACK from 192.168.1.1
bound to 192.168.1.10 – renewal in 36063 seconds.
DietPi-Services
─────────────────────────────────────────────────────
Mode: start
Please wait…
[Ok] cron
DietPi-Process_Tool
─────────────────────────────────────────────────────
Mode: Apply
Please wait…
Cron (3610)
[Ok] Nice 0
[Ok] Affinity 0-3
[Ok] Scheduler SCHED_OTHER 0
DHCP Client (3514)
[Ok] Nice 0
[Ok] Affinity 0-3
[Ok] Scheduler SCHED_OTHER 0
OOPS - I clicked on the terminal window to try and capture the output the whole thing stopped. Not sure it was the click on the window or something else …
Tried to ssh back in to ethernet - failed
Tried to ssh in to wifi - failed
tried to ping both wifi and ethernet - failed
reconnect power
ssh back in and it sent me to License page tried to click OK. Nothing happened. Couldn’t get out - dead. Closed terminal
Opened new terminal
couldn’t ssh or ping ethernet or wifi connection
wifi dongle gives occasional flash
ethernet green light gives occasional flash.
power down and up
ping works on wifi and ethernet
ssh into ethernet
License OK works this time.
Welcome - click OK, USB -no
Dietpi-config
This time I see change DHCP and set to STATIC
Set IP etc.
Click Apply settings and nothing much happens
Click on OK at bottom and get
Connecting to Williams , please wait
DietPi-Services
─────────────────────────────────────────────────────
Mode: stop
Please wait…
[Ok] cron
[Info] Dropping connections, please wait…
DietPi-Set_Hardware
─────────────────────────────────────────────────────
Mode: wifi (enable)
Please wait…
[Info] Please wait, enabling WiFi Modules…
[Ok] wifi enable | Completed
\
- Restarting networking services…
Internet Systems Consortium DHCP Client 4.3.1
Copyright 2004-2014 Internet Systems Consortium.
All rights reserved.
For info, please visit https://www.isc.org/software/dhcp/
and then nothing.
Everything stopped
Close terminal
Open new terminal NanoPi can’t be reconnected to.
Power down and up
SSH in and get back in menu - How do I escape ??? 
Got to exit but then get message
Installation Aborted by User
Installation must be completed prior to using DietPi
Please run dietpi-software to restart the installation
root@DietPi:~# iwconfig
eth0 no wireless extensions.
lo no wireless extensions.
wlan0 IEEE 802.11 ESSID:“Williams”
Mode:Managed Frequency:2.412 GHz Access Point: 64:66:B3:F4:35:F8
Bit Rate=43.3 Mb/s Tx-Power=20 dBm
Retry short limit:7 RTS thr:off Fragment thr:off
Encryption key:AACC-CCDD-BE
Power Management:off
Link Quality=70/70 Signal level=-17 dBm
Rx invalid nwid:0 Rx invalid crypt:0 Rx invalid frag:0
Tx excessive retries:0 Invalid misc:2 Missed beacon:0
root@DietPi:~# ifconfig
eth0 Link encap:Ethernet HWaddr 02:20:19:92:70:b4
inet addr:192.168.1.20 Bcast:192.168.1.255 Mask:255.255.255.0
inet6 addr: fe80::20:19ff:fe92:70b4/64 Scope:Link
UP BROADCAST RUNNING MULTICAST MTU:1500 Metric:1
RX packets:181 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
TX packets:12 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
collisions:0 txqueuelen:1000
RX bytes:44034 (43.0 KiB) TX bytes:1200 (1.1 KiB)
lo Link encap:Local Loopback
inet addr:127.0.0.1 Mask:255.0.0.0
inet6 addr: ::1/128 Scope:Host
UP LOOPBACK RUNNING MTU:65536 Metric:1
RX packets:2 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
TX packets:2 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
collisions:0 txqueuelen:1
RX bytes:190 (190.0 B) TX bytes:190 (190.0 B)
wlan0 Link encap:Ethernet HWaddr 40:a5:ef:d2:ee:52
inet addr:192.168.1.104 Bcast:192.168.1.255 Mask:255.255.255.0
inet6 addr: fe80::42a5:efff:fed2:ee52/64 Scope:Link
UP BROADCAST RUNNING MULTICAST MTU:1500 Metric:1
RX packets:224 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 frame:0
TX packets:150 errors:0 dropped:0 overruns:0 carrier:0
collisions:0 txqueuelen:1000
RX bytes:23068 (22.5 KiB) TX bytes:49929 (48.7 KiB)
More to come